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are made up of fixed beliefs, negative ideas
that have become entrenched in your
thinking. They are dangerous because if you
treat them as fact, you will not seek,
receive or process new information, which
undermines your plans for change. If you
"shake up" your belief system by
challenging these views and testing their
validity, the freshness of your perspective
can be startling.
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dated a great guy for almost
five months. all was great as far as i knew.he broke up
with me.said it was all him but i still not sure what
happened.would love to know. but he will not talk to me
or go any where he sees that i might be.I am very much
still in love with him.
Signed:
liz
Dear
Liz, Sounds
to me, you were dating a coward. A real man doesn't run
away with their fears. They confront them. It's obvious
by this persons actions that his true colors emerged.
Consider yourself lucky you found out now and not 5
years from now. You may never know why he ran (most
likely he doesn't know why, so how can he tell you?).
Just hold your head high and say "He missed out on
a good thing" and go on with your life. DO NOT GO
BACK......all the warning signs are in your face! And
as far as being in love for almost 5 months........you
are still in the lust stage! "Biker"
Abbie.
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I am 26 yrs old and this guy i am dating is 42 i have
adored his bad boy image and his big belly and beautiful
smile,,, well i truly think he is it and we were madly
in love and enjoyed tons of rides on his bad to the bone
harley. i fact he gave me my first ride at 13. and it
was tauntingly innocent then. NOT LATER BY NO MEANS..
well we seem to have hit rocky grounds and i might add i
truly start LOSING incite in my mind if i am
even out away from him and i hear a harley I LOSE MY
MIND UNTIL I GET BACK TO HIM TO SEE IF HE WANTS TO GO
...if i lose him he is the only one i have ever rode
with or even feel comfortable with enough to ride. and
for that matter of a fact i might be staying in a bad
relationship wasting both of our time, but i do still
love him and find him extremly attractive but it isn't
what it used to be...
should i stay or should i go can we make our love like
it used to be?
Signed: Cherrie
thomas
Dear
Cherrie,
Love is a
funny thing.........it's a 50/50 deal. And if you even
think for a second that you are in a bad
relationship......you are. Sounds to me, you need a time
out for yourself. Find out within, what you really want
and go for it (it might take years to find that one
out!). Insecurities..........we all have them.........I
would start there first.
"Biker"
Abbie.
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i married a patch holder of
a m.c. club....he cheats on me, beats me, and wants me
to support him. now i want a divorce only after 1 month
of marriage. but i love riding and i love patch holders
can you help me locate a nice guy?
Signed: angel
(female)
Dear
Angle.................welcome to BikerDate.com !!!!
"Biker"
Abbie.
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I am 30, have never been married and I don't have any
children. I am a very honest fun loving person, but I
can't seem to meet the right man for me. I am very
attracted to the "biker" image, but I don't
know where to find a decent honest man that doesn't play
games and is not attached. I am attractive and very
independent. Do you think this scares off men?
Signed: Angel
Dear
Angle,
You sound
like a rare catch........................and also what
you are looking for. A person for whom you are
searching for is hard to find in any group. Be patient.
As the saying goes............It will happen when you
least expect it!
"Biker"
Abbie.
I have met the love of my life. He is everything I ever
wanted...there is one little minor problem though, he
rides a Honda (Hawk) sportbike....how do I go by to
convert him into "the one and only bike to
ride" ?
Signed: rebellgirl
Dear
Rebellgirl,
He rides
a WHAT???? A WHAT??!!!??? I'm so
sorry......but that is WAY past my expertise........I
recommend he seeks PROFESSIONAL HELP!
"Biker"
Abbie.
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