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Be alert to the possibility that your behavior is controlled by fear of rejection. It's easier not to change. Try something new or put yourself on the line. Also consider if your need for immediate gratification creates an appetite for a small payoff now rather than a large payoff later.
Dear Abbie:

 

i met a beautiful, wonderful, adventurous woman 2 1/2 years ago. She liked riding right away on my 2001 vulcan. she wanted off the pillion and we got her a vulcan too. then, she wanted a harley but i didn't feel it was time because of costs. she left me, bought a harley, and rode off with anoth man...i'm devistated

Signed: leo

Dear leo

What can I say.................you're not a Harley man...........you just wouldn't get it

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

mid thirties never married god folling man who 1 year ago realized i wasnt happy or who i wanted to be ironiclly through my love affair with cocaine a whole new me blossomed i love drinking smoking wearing levis and staying high i now have a big fetish for smoking biker babes i love them i guess its there bad girl image problem i afraid to come out of the closet no one knows help

Signed: bikerbabelover

Dear bikerbabelover

As soon as you come out of the closet.......there is a drug "rehab" waiting for you.

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

 

MY 2 FRIENDS AND I RECENTLY HAD OUR HEARTS BROKEN AROUND THE SAME TIME,WE ALL LOVE BIKER GUYS,,HOW CAN WE MEET SOME,, BECAUSE WE'VWE BEEN GOING WITH THW WRONG TYPE OF GUYS,,NOW ITS TIME TO GO FOR WHAT WE WANT....PLEASE GET BACK TO US SOON WITH ADVICE....THANK YOU,,,THE WITCHES OF EFFORT

Signed: Jane,Alex,Suki

Dear Jane,Alex,Suki

Don't forget what you've learned from your mistakes, only then will you find what you are looking for!

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

My husband and I work in the same company. We've never had problems with other employees getting in between before.. so here's the story. Our place of employment is most female workers.. expect for my husband and the cook. several weeks ago.. it was rumored that my husband had made a comment about another co workers ass. We laughed it off and never thought anything about it. However, a week later I happened to find this same co workers number in some stuff of my husband's, no big deal I knew why he had it.. although we did talk about it. That was the end of that. BUT.. the day after this.. This very same co worker askes my husband why he wasn't talking and joking with her.. his reply.. "My wife told me to stay away from you, I knew he said this, as he told me we laughed because I thought he was joking.. but now I learn he also told her "My wife found your number in some of my stuff" which he failed to mention at all to me. why would he do that to us? Especially in our place !
of work?!! and what do I do about it? PLEASE SEND ADVICE!!!

Signed: Hillbilygurl

Dear Hillbilygurl

I totally agree with you about how you feel with what he has done. You need to have as many serious talks (in front of counsel if need be) about this that you need to. If you do not feel 110% fine with the out come, go into counseling right away before this gets out of hand.

"Biker" Abbie

 
Dear Abbie:

Hi Abbie,

First of all, I have read some of the past "situations" and your response to some of these is priceless!!

Now I will tell you that I had been with my significant other for 4 years.  He had become distant, noncommunicative, and nonaffectionate,  I expressed my concern about this to him and tried to discuss it with him but he refused to talk about it - sound familiar?  I suspected although could not prove that he may have had another interest elsewhere.  I decided that I could no longer live with this behavior and told him I was moving out - his reply was "OK" and that was it - no conversation, nothing.  Should I even consider talking to him if he were to get in touch with me?

Signed: Franchesca

Dear Franchesca

Wow, you have a tough situation. You know the gut is telling you he has someone on the side but nevertheless, it's your remaining days on this planet. Make the most of them that you can. Hope you can read between the lines :))

"Biker" Abbie


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