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I have just recently begun going out with a wonderful man.
But he does things to me that I have never experienced
before. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining, but, I
have no idea how he knows these things, where he could
have learned them, and how he does them now. My main
problem is the venus butterfly trap. I have no idea what
it is or how its done. Do you?
Signed: Kitty Vega
Dear Kitty
Vega
Just hold
on and enjoy the ride....................
"Biker"
Abbie
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I was supposed to go with a guy friend of mine of 10years
to Sturgis rally this year. I planned & worked double
& triple shifts to get the money up to go. 1 1/2 days
before we were supposed to leave he finally returned my
phone messages (after a week) & told me he didn't
think he would be able to go. He said he'd call me in a
couple days & let me know if he was still going to be
able to go. This trip was VERY IMPORTANT to me. Last
Nov. I left my husband, 3 months later, my 18 year old
daughter hung herself. I really needed to get away &
clear my head so I could get ready for the next college
semester, and think clearer.
He called a week after the rally was over, I didn't answer
his call. He called again,I didn't answer. He came over to
my house 2 days later cause he figured out I wasn't taking
his calls. I was nice, I held my temper and told him I was
mad as hell & he hurt me badly by skipping out on me.
Then he told me he went anyway without me. I was ready
(even tho I was very disappointed) to forgive him for
unforseen circumstances. But when he told me he went
anyway without me, now I FEEL I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO HIM
EVER AGAIN. If that's his idea of being a true friend then
I don't want him as a freind. Question-- Do I cut him
loose as a friend, make him grovel, punch his lights out,
ignore him from now until hell freezes over, or accept him
back as a friend & let him make it up to me somehow?
Signed: Beyond
hurt.
Dear Beyond
hurt
I always
found that after every 10 years, it's time to clean
house................
"Biker"
Abbie
I am 42 years old and have gotten involved with a man who
has a girlfriend. Normally, I would NEVER do this, but
there are very few men who REALLY do it for me (not that I
am into women). I can't deny that on my scale of 1 to 10,
he is a 25. Obviously, the relationship is not quite
the way I want it to be. I am definitely not getting
what I need since we only see each other about once a
week. We have been seeing each other for a little
over a year and I know I need to break it off, but my love
for him keeps me from doing it. I fear that I will
never meet someone who I love as much as I love him.
He talks about leaving his g/f, but it never seems to
happen. He is not the kind of man you give an
ultimatum to. They say if you love something let it
go ..., but I am afraid that he won't come back. I
know there is only one way to find out, but it is the
hardest thing I have ever done. Please give me some
advice on how to proceed in this precarious situation.
My heart is !
on the line and I know that he cares about me.
Signed: June
Dear June
You are
with a man who is cheating on a woman to be with you and
given a chance, he will cheat on you to be with
another...............In my book he's scum............
Think
better of yourself. You deserve it .....don't you?
"Biker"
Abbie
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