Signed:  Reneme

Dear reneme

Best advice is to go to a local Harley Dealer or "Bike" shop (no japs) and just ask. You'll be amazed of all the secret watering holes!

"Biker" Abbie

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having a hard time here. Husband passed away this Easter and i feel lost. Friends have backed off and although i'm really trying to move forward i feel so alone. What do i do? I 've joined matchmaking sites o try and meet someone but feel like its going no where. What should i do?

Signed:  Christine

Dear Christine

Unfortunately, time will help heal this void. You just have to stick it out and take one day at a time. Don't stop trying to move forward, it will all work out at the end..................I promise :)

"Biker" Abbie

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Signed:  Mel

Dear Mel

You can to the right place. Make sure when you place your ad to upload GOOD pictures of yourself and your bike!. Remember, you are trying to sell yourself. Shine baby shine!

"Biker" Abbie

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I have been looking for someone who I had known since Jan. 2000. I know he is in Wisconsin. He was here in Oklahoma but, he was in a place for awhile. We had wrote for 3 years to one another. Now, since he had left from that place in April, 2004, I haven't heard from him at all. I have tried just about everything that I could think of to find him. I've looked in the residence whitepages on the internet and called everyone of them that has the same last name as he does. I've went to a website call Melissa Data and it had a list of all the places where he had been and the recent one is Viroqua, Wisconsin. I am still trying to find this one person. Right now, I had promised him alot of things as he had promised me but, since I haven't heard from him in over a year in which October 17th, 2003 was the last letter that I had gotten from him. I had prayed for him to write me or to contact me some how in a way that he knows. I am still at the last address of where I lived when I had!
 written to him. Would you, please, help me find this one person.

Signed:  Lost My Man in Wisconsin

Dear Lost

You must move on. What ever his reasons are his actions are speaking now. Don't be a sap. You should be thinking....HEY, I DON'T DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THIS. WHAT'S IT TAKE TO MAKE A PHONE CALL TO ME.....HE JUST LOST THE BEST THING OUT THERE.........and move on!!!!

"Biker" Abbie

 

Dear Abbie:

MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN SPLIT YP FOR A COUPLE YEARS AND NOW HE IS LIVING WITH SOMEONE CLOSE BY AND TELLS ME HE IS VERY UNHAPPY AND WANTS TO COME HOME BUT HAS THINGS TO TAKE CARE OF FIRST LIKE BIKE WEEK IN DAYTONA. WHEN HE GETS BACK THEN HE WANTS TO LEAVE HER. I AM STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE WITH MY HUSBAND PLEASE HELP ME I SHOULD NOT HAVE TO WAIT WHEN HIS CHILDREN WANT HIM TO COME HOME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.

Signed:  LONELY FOR MY HUSBAND

Dear LONELY

I say this time after time..................MOVE ON! You need to feel that you in no way deserve to be treated like this and that you only deserve the best. And from what it sounds like......he is for sure, NOT THE BEST!

"Biker" Abbie

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