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I work with this guy and I've been sleeping with him (he's
married) and now a guy in a MC is coming in and I'm really
interested in him as he is me. The problem is my guy I've
been messing with is gettin pissed..we are sponsoring a
run for them and "my" guy wants me to ride with
him and the MC guy(president btw) wants me to ride with
him. I've told "my" guy he's married and has no
claim on me and it would be disrepectful to tell the pres.
of this MC no..he doesn't understand where I'm coming
from. Am I wrong? Besides the fact I'm seeing a married
man-am I wrong for wanting to get to know this other guy?
My dead husband was in a MC so I'm used to that way of
life and I kinda miss it..my boss keeps telling me not to
go back to that way of life (being a patchholders ol lady)
I don't know what to do--HELP!
Signed: Rainey
Dear Rainey
Oh, you've
come to the right place and from someone who's been
there.........NO SLEEPING AROUND WITH MARRIED MEN and NO
DATING PATCH HOLDERS! You need to respect yourself enough
not to be in either one of those
positions.....................do I really need to get into
that??!!!???!!!??
"Biker"
Abbie
Im a 28 yrs old and divorced from my ol man for almost 3
yrs now. When he left he took his bike and left me wih
some words which i dont take to seriously which was, no
man will ever want a woman like you. Now im not perfect,
im not a barbie doll size 3/4. Im a real woman and not a
fatass either. But seems like everytime i meet a man who
takes me riding and out somewhere its either they dont
call back because i dont lay down and spread em or because
i do. Im confused now, what should i do to meet a man who
will actually call me back for another date or who wont
stand me up,and one who dont care if on the 1st date if we
have sex? Thank you
Signed: rae
Dear rae
Respect
yourself and screw what everyone else thinks. Have a goal
in life (NOT A MAN) and reach for it. Have a purpose in
life. The rest will follow. If you need counseling, get
it! If you need to hang around a better group of people ,
do it! Once you think higher of yourself, the better job
you will do when it comes to picking out a man.
"Biker"
Abbie
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