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Dear Biker Abbie

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Every choice you make — including the thoughts you think — has consequences. When you choose the behavior or thought, you choose the consequences. If you choose to stay with a destructive partner, then you choose the consequences of pain and suffering. If you choose thoughts contaminated with anger and bitterness, then you will create an experience of alienation and hostility. When you start choosing the right behavior and thoughts — which will take a lot of discipline — you'll get the right consequences.
Dear Abbie:

 

Hi there,

I am looking for a biker man in my area. I seem to find that everyone I am in contact with lives very far from me, and are not willing to make the meet. Can U give me some advice as to where I should be looking?

Signed: Chilered

Dear Chilered,

Special people take special time. Hopefully BikerDate can close the gap. Fill out our AutoFind and BikerDate will notify you when someone meets your requirements.

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

my prob is that I`ve been with my old man for 6 year`s and I found out he was cheating ,I gave him a choice her or me and he picked me,but the prob is she keep`s calling and doing all sort of weird stuff,and I mean weird , she`s a wacko, and I keep on telling her to stop calling,but it dont work,how do you get ride of someone like that ?

Signed: redhead biker

Dear RedHead,

To start off.........you want to get rid of the wrong person.  Who is more "wacko"? The person who wants to be with a married man or the person who wants to be with her husband who cheats on her? There is also a little thing out there called AIDS!. He is taking YOUR LIFE in his hands and you are allowing it!

It's all about self-esteem!

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

 

hello. an admirer who is part of the iron horsemen club wants to take me out. im leary not knowing much about that club. Can you tell me anything. thx.

Signed: clarrise

Dear Clarrise,

I'm sorry..........I don't know anything about that club.  The only advise I can give on this is USE YOUR HEAD not your heart. The only important person here is YOU!  So protect yourself. Acknowledge your gut feelings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

I keep searching the ads for a biker who's ready to be with one woman who doesn't play games, cheat or lie.  All I keep finding are the jerks who still want to play.  I've had enough players.  I'm told I'm very good looking, have a killer smile and am a lot of fun.  So what am I doing wrong and why can't I find my special biker guy?

Signed: Babe

Dear Babe,

You are doing nothing wrong. Consider yourself lucky in this way............you have reached a point of growth in your life that you can spot the liars, the cheaters, the game players right away and realizing when you do find that someone special (and he will be at the same growth level) you will always appreciate them and never take them for granted as they would do the same towards you. Most people go from one dysfunctional relationship to another. It sounds to me you have grown passed that. It's hard.......just try to be patient.

"Biker" Abbie

 
Dear Abbie:

I live in OK-met a Harley guy from NV online a couple mes. ago, it rolled really fast, into talking online every night, phone 2X a week, something in the mail all the time, to "the L word". He wanted me to move there, marry him, etc...Suddenly it went from all this attention to 1 line emails. Missed phone calls, etc. I nailed him online the other night about "what's up?" I just want honsety, good, bad...whatever-LET ME KNOW. Said he was just doin' his own thing, lotta probs, just running wild. "Everyone needs space" Well, there's already 1500 mi between us! How much more "space" does someone need? Hasn't even been 2 mos. yet, I think I already know the answer on what I need to do, just need a 2nd opinion, can't believ I got myself into this...I wasn't lookin, he im'd ME. Now he's all wishy-washy. Doesn't even sign on anymore hardly. I told him @ the beginning, "If you meet someone who's "there"-really "there" I understand that, just please be honest. I think he has & not holding up his end. Says he'll come around..but time's wasting here. Ya know?
 
Signed: OK gal

Dear OK,

Fast is not L - love, it's L - lust.....................................................Think of yourself as one of the LUCKY ONES finding out the other persons true colors in such a short amount of time. Move on, move on, move on.......................the only one that will be wasting time is YOU!

"Biker" Abbie


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