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You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.
Strategy: Get real with yourself about life and everybody in it. Be truthful about what isn't working in your life. Stop making excuses and start making results.
Dear Abbie:

 
I cheated on my boyfreind of 13 years because i was not very happy.  This guy came in to the store i was working in and persuded me for two munths befor I gave in to his induewhendos. We dated for a while i moved in and then i moved out beause my 3 year old was very sick.  When i moved out he said to me that when everything got strated out no matter if it took awhile he would be waiting even if he found a girlfreind he would kick her ass to the curb I tald him he was a lieing to me and he said then yiou don't know me very well.  Now he wan't talk to me.  What should I do? leave him alone or keep letting him now i still care.  I bout him a cross to protect him. 

Signed: Lonely

 

Dear Lonely

 

Well you're not going to like what I have to say.......a cheat is a cheat is a cheat. If you were unhappy then deal with it in a functional way NOT A DYSFUNCTIONAL WAY. It's not about you anymore when you have a child. Look at what your child is learning how to deal with issues..........

 

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

my current or soon to be ex bf (i don't know,he's not talking to me at the present time)We had a fight? conflict is more like it...anyways would you think your man was cheating on you if you only had sex MAYBE once a month?
After laying in bed naked together and he turns his back to you and never touches you?then he lies to you about not having money and you pay for the day out together?(he told me he didn't have any money-i had never done it before but with all my suspicions about him cheating i looked in his wallet for some kind of evidence only to discover that he had lied about not having any money..i took the money and waited for himto confront me about it....which proved he lied.
we are both on our lease so he can't make me leave and vice versa
I do not want to leave ,i know 2 wrongs don't make a right but at least i admit my mistakes and don't lie about what i do

Signed: blue

Dear blue

You can only try to communicate with him. You can't make a person stay with you if they want out. Exhaust all avenues since you want to be with him. Then you can make a decision you can live with....

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

 

My last boyfriend was a Harley rider and now I am spoiled! I can't even look at another man if he doesn't have a bike. I'm 55 and now wanting a bike of my own. At least I can get out there and ride, even if it's alone. My question is: Are there more men out here that like BBW's and where are they?

Signed:  BJ(betty)

Dear  BJ(betty)

There is someone for everybody............good luck on your hunt!

"Biker" Abbie

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Dear Abbie:

My situation is that I am a short dude 5'5". I am attracted to petite women of course. But it seems that all the small women are attracted to the big gorilla type guys. What gives? And don't tell me it has anything to do with any other part of my anatomy cause I know that it isn't true. LOL

SignedLittle Wolf

Dear Little Wolf

It's all about attitude and personality...............look at the Fonz.......he was short!

"Biker" Abbie

 
Dear Abbie:

Hi Abbie,
First let me say I really get a charge from reading your column. That said, I think your 100% right in the response to PAchick.
I had a freind/work partner that was like her man. He got a used sporty, his first bike, and turned into a total ass. On lunch breaks we would go into a deli or store, he'd go to the far end of the place and holler out some kinda stupid question having to deal with his HARLEY!! I can understand a bit of pride, but I found this almost as aggravating as him purchasing chaps, jacket, gloves, etc..
all new, and dressing up in all that gear, even on the warmest days,(we live in Florida!!) As for his attitude change, I will not go there. We are no longer freinds, and no one else will hang out with him now either because he would not quit rubbing his little harley under everybodies noses.

Signed: Frank ad140

Dear Frank ad140

Isn't a Sporty a girl's bike?

"Biker" Abbie


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