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This story
almost cured me of online dating ever again.... I met this biker we
will call Chester the Molester after 2 months of emailing and talking
on the phone(there was no sex talk at all during this time). He seemed
like a really nice guy,too good to be true,good job,hard worker,had
just moved his mom with him so he could take care of her since she was
sick. The date started out like any other,talking,having dinner, a
fantastic motorcycle ride through downtown Chicago at night...very
romantic until he took me home. We pull up in front of my house I said
Goodnight I had a really good time and Chester says to me the date
wasnt over till he walked me to my front door, which I thought was
very sweet and romantic, well that is until he walks me to my door and
instantly changes his personality. He grabs me very roughly and tries
to kiss me,when I told him NO he then put his hands directly on my
crotch and then my breast,while Im trying to push him away and tell
him my children are in the house with their friends and please not to
do that, he starts talking really loud saying hey "They are old
enough to know whats going on they'll just think their mother is
getting lucky on the front porch". Well I proceeded to almost
push him down my front steps and told him if he didnt leave his face
would be meeting the sidewalk. Think he got the hint, HELL NO.
He decides he wants to use my bathroom and I let him know loudly and
clearly he would have to find somewhere else to go. Well guess what,
you are not going to believe this but he did, he walks to the side of
my house and stands directly under my daughters window which is
open,and starts urinating right under it while she was in there with
her friends and starts yelling loud enough for them to hear...Hey
girls come and look at what this dumb Bitch is missing.
I almost died of embarrasment because by this time my daughter and her
friends are at the window and my neighbors have come out to see what
is happening and all they see is this man standing with his pants
around his ankles holding what he calls a dick and yelling at the
window.Well I started threatening him with calling the cops and he
finally got on his bike and reving up the pipes so loud to wake the
dead he pulls a hole shot and almost dumps his bike on the sidewalk.
Believe me its was really hard to try and convince my neighbors and
the girls parents that all bikers or men who ride are not like this.
On top of that this dumbass has the brass balls to call me for 2 weeks
after wanting to know why I would never go out with him again!!! I
think Chester was running his bike too many hours in the garage with
the doors shut!!
Started a new job last March at the same place Mel
worked. We'd barely spoken to each other & she
started turning up in places I'd be at work &
outside work hours. After speaking to me twice, she
suggested we date.
Despite saying she "didn't believe in premarital
sex" (she's religious when it suits her), she
suggested she stay over at my house & we 'dry
hump'at the end of our first date. You might laugh about
dry humping, but apparently in her mind it doesn't
constitute actual sex & that was okay with her
beliefs!? In the space of two weeks, it progressed to
mutual masturbation & oral sex (on her). She refuses
to 'return the favour' because her "beliefs told
her it was wrong" but she eventually got the hang
of giving decent handjobs. Her future boyfriends can
thank me for teaching her that!
That said, she went out of her way to make me feel like
I wasn't good enough for her from time to time. Saying
things like "I wish you looked more Greek/like
Orlando Bloom/were English/didn't have a hairy
chest" & a few times would comment "...if
we're even still together by then!" when we'd talk
about plans for the future. She also wouldn't pay for
anything when we'd go out - it was just expected I'd pay
for all her meals, movie tickets etc & buy her stuff
in between.
Everything went great for 5 weeks & I was the
happiest I've been in ages. Then after spending the May
long weekend together & her telling me I "made
her so happy", she "never wanted to let me
go" & she "wanted to be with me
forever", she started crying & telling me I was
a "great guy" but she'd "always wanted to
end up with a guy who'd go to church with me" &
she was dumping me because "it seemed like the
right thing to do at the time" & she
"didn't have time for a boyfriend".
I then had to keep working with her & after she
initially suggested we'd get back together & started
showing up wherever I was at work, our boss (her best
friend) found out we'd dated & Mel totally bailed
out on me leaving me to take the heat. She complained I
"wasn't leaving her alone" & "wasn't
getting over her", despite my rarely speaking to
her. She then emailed telling me she "wanted to
move on", then a week later she hooked up with some
guy she met at her church. Its bad enough having to work
with an ex knowing they've found someone else, but she
needed to tell me how happy she was with her new guy
& how tired she was after spending the weekend
"getting a workout" (read as 'dry humping').
After I found out she'd hooked up, I stayed out of her
way, but she still bitched to our boss that I
"wouldn't back off".
I ended up quitting my job but left a note apologising
to Mel that things had gotten so out of control (even
though I didn't cause any of it, just didn't want people
in the industry talking sh*t about me after I left). Our
boss read the note & banned me from the workplace
claiming I was a "threat" to Mel's safety. She
then called other businesses owned by the same company
& told them not to employ me because of the sh*t Mel
had told her.
After she ditched her next guy after 5 weeks (see a
pattern forming?), Mel & I got back in contact.
She'd dumped him because she "needed to find
herself & get closer to God" & was
"thinking of becoming a lesbian" after the
guys she'd dated weren't reacting well to being dumped
for bullsh*t reasons then treated like sh*t & lied
about to cover her own ass. After initially blaming me
for things I supposedly said & did (which only
existed in her screwed-up little mind),she realised
she'd believed workplace rumours & in her words
"messed things up" for me. After speaking for
a month, Mel said she "didn't want to see me"
again & if I agreed to not tell anyone (her boss)
that she'd realised she'd spread lies about me, then
she'd remember the good times we'd had together. Figured
I was getting screwed over, so I screwed back &
wrote a letter to her parents letting them know
EVERYTHING.
So, if you're reading this because you've done a Google
search after been hit on by Mel at church (Assemblies of
God, Redland Bay - she can only date within her
religion, but forgot to mention that when she pushed for
us to date!) - save yourself from getting f*cked over
& just walk away. She's a really pretty girl with
sexier-than-hell eyes & she'll say stuff that'll
make you feel like you'll be happy together forever. But
in the end, she's not even close to who she pretends to
be to lure guys in. She'll ruin your life & laugh
while she does it. She claims she's "okay
with" grinding up on guys to get herself off, using
them for what they can buy her & then dumping them
when it doesn't suit her to "love" them any
more because she's found another guy/victim. She also
claims God has a plan for her, but I don't think even
God knows where her mind's at.
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