I understand your delimma. I was one of those galpals.. I loved riding and sex so I was always the armcharm but I didnt get anything out of the package. I was second choice, they wouldnt leave their women because of their committments. Leave you woman if you dont have anything in common and she rarely puts out. There are LOTS of women that would appreciate you and they all arent married. I for one am not. I am just looking for a good man. Good luck to you and please dont drag out this relationship any longer than you have to. You deserve better and if she isnt in to you then dump her and find someone that can be.

Josie