I met this women .I have know her for 2 weeks .we like it other the miute we met.She says she likes me very much.I saw her on saturday.We talked on the phone on sunday.She said she would call that nite.She didnt.Today is monday and she wont answer her cell.Whats up .I have not sleeped with her.She has been divorced twice.She has not dated much since her last divorce 3 years ago.Is she scared of getting hurt or what?

Signed: bird

My situation... I will try to make it short.  I met this guy thru some friends who needed help with his son someone to watch over the summer while he was at work.
(brief description of my situation.. I almost died 2 yrs ago from pesticide poisoning and lost all my hair and my health. suddenly finding myself in a situation where I was'nt able to take care of myself. I have no family, no money, no insurance. But I somehow have made it thus far.  Health is better, my hair is back but short.  I still have my truck.)  So I agree to help this person who seemed very nice and down to earth.  Our relationship turn into a romantic one and he asked me to move in with him.  I was hestitant because I have no fantasies about love and i have heard it all before. I explained this all to him, saying I can't afford giving up my present security on a whim. what happens if he decided that he doesnt want the relationship anymore and kicks me out on my ass.  He said that he would never do that.  Well guess what! He has done everything he said he would not do.  Now I have no place to go and I have a dog and a cat.  All I have is my truck, my animals.  How a!
m I suppose to pick myself up and get finacially stable again with no place to live.  I am very honest never stole a penny from anyone. I have always helped anyone but now that i need help there is no one around. Sometimes I think I would of been better off if I would of died.  I don't know what to do.

Signed: kelly

Had never been on a bike, until him. For a month, he called EVERY day wanting to see me.  But never showed interest in anything but integrating me into his "bikestyle." BOY was there passion.  I was hooked.  Adored him. Became disillusioned when I learned he was occasionally seeing another, whom he didn't intend to be serious with (didn't want to raise her kids). Up till the day I walked out on him, he was referencing the future, etc.. then on a dime (no signs prior)started ignoring me, on a special night.  Even ignored me after I put on a "special something" for him.  I am quite attractive, and was insulted. I asked him three times if he needed time to himself, no answer, so I split. Prior to this, I said "tittie" contests weren't my cup of tea, and gave him a sort of hard time for being mean to a dog.  He never called to ask what happened, even though he seemed really into me.  Problem?  He waved at me to make sure I saw another woman on his bike after two weeks. He forced!
 me to "quit before I was fired."   What do I do if this jerk keeps waving at me?  I don't know much about biker culture, but why is this jerk taunting me when he was the one who screwed me over?  I was always good to him, and really loved the rides.  Do I make a rule to never date biker men and just get back on my horse? I am my own woman and do not take a back seat to any man.  Are bikers too chauvanistic for a lady like me?

Thanks, Kathy

My OM wants me to wear a PO, (he's with a major outlaw club)...his reasoning behind it is that the other PO's will 'treat me better' if I wear one.  Okay--I'm married to the man--my ring IS my PO.  Besides, the guys all treat me well--they all know me, they respect me. 

I want to wait to wear it--my thought is that if the PO determines how certain people treat me...then I really don't want anything to do with them anyway...so I'll wait, AND I'll know who is worth my friendship BEFORE I wear it. 

Does that make sense to you? 
Thanks.

Signed:  powithaprob

abbie, my wife has moved into other bedroom after an argument pertaining to my son, who's in marines and going to iraq soon. couple months ago she said we could not afford my trips to san diego, ft. leonard wood, or n. carolina where he is now.we make better than $3000.00 per month! i said "you don't tell me when and where i can and can't go to visit my son, see him before he deploys, whatever. i said blood is thicker than $ or water, and we are still a package deal, even after 12 yrs. of marriage. sometimes i feel as just a pay check to her,she buys what she wants when she wants it,etc.
my son has a bit of a problem w/ her after she cheated on me a few years ago. they've never sat down and worked it out, to here, it was not a mistake.
there's a whole lot more,but i'll quit fer now. i'll check back later. TANX, TOOL :-)

Signed: tool

I live with the father of my kids but he really doesn't do a whole lot for me.I have a son that adores his father no matter what.I have tryed to leave him but take him back cause i feel sorry that he has no place to go. He also has a big drinken problem and that i really don't like i'v been with him 20 years but not in love for the last 10 maybe you could give me some pointer that could help me

Signed: Sherry

I have been married to the same man for 10 years we've been together 16 years. The last 4 years have been kind of bad. He shows no intreast in me I've been told that I'm a pretty woman I heard the cat calls. I've tried everything nothing seems to work the only time he wants sex is when he wants it. If I ask it's like he get mad and won't give me any till he's ready. I can't take much more rejection from this man please Help.

Signed: A reject

my girl likes dose not like to ride or go any where and rarley puts out anymore
found a riding parter but she is married but very hot and worth the risk
what should i do?

Signed: hd rider

I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 17 YEARS MY WIFE COULD CARE LESS ABOUT SEX BUT SHE SAYS SHE ENJOYS IT WHEN WE MAKE LOVE I KNOW SHE GETS OF AT LEST 3 OR 4 TIMES EVERY TIME WE MAKE LOVE BUT I NEED IT 3 OR 4 TIMES A WEEK I DONT WONT A DEVORCE BUT I AM LOOKING FOR SOMETHING ON THE SIDE WITH NO COMENTMENT I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I HAVE TRYED TO TALK TO HER BUT SHE JUST GETS MAD I HAVE TOLD HER WE CAN DO WHAT EVER SHE WONTS TO DO GO ANY WHERE OR BUY WHAT EVER SHE WNOTS THAT WE CAN AFFORD EVER ONE TELLS ME I AM TO GOOD TO HER AND I TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN

Signed:  BIG MIKE

Dear Abbie:
I am seeing a guy who says he is a biker, but I have never seen his motercycle or anything. And he seems to lie all the time!!!!! Should I loose him?  (well, I already am going to loose him, but do you really think he could be a biker? I have been seeing him for a year!!!)

Signed:  erica